Greetings from here. Just needing a piece of positive counsel here. It has been subtle and recurrent but I decided to share this particular one.
My wife travelled for a burial with my kids without my knowledge. I travelled far away for work and call home everyday. Just recently I called very early in the morning to tell my wife I will be coming home by weekend,she somewhat sounded surprised and said instead of me coming on Friday I should come on Sunday.
I didn’t say anything,I pretended not to be angry with that. Yet I immediately did a cash transfer for feeding and balance for the kids school fees that same morning we were discussing.
Later in the evening,I expected her to call and update me on the fees payment,but I didn’t receive any call,I then had to call but her lines were all switched off,at this point I was worried especially when I couldn’t talk to the kids.
I then called a neighbor to help me check if they are at home only to confirm they travelled for burial which the neighbor got to know from a phone conversation between my wife and her sister.
At this point, I called my wife’s brother only to confirm that they were having a burial in their village, which I am not aware of,even as an inlaw.
Right now am very upset and I don’t want to act in anger,please how can I react to this conspiracy between her and her family carrying my car with my kids to a distant village for burial without my knowledge.